msg ROS2 compatibility, microdds_client improvements (timesync, reduced code size, added topics, etc), fastrtps purge

- update all msgs to be directly compatible with ROS2
 - microdds_client improvements
   - timesync
   - reduced code size
   - add to most default builds if we can afford it
   - lots of other little changes
 - purge fastrtps (I tried to save this multiple times, but kept hitting roadblocks)

msg/ActuatorControls.msg

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+uint64 timestamp			# time since system start (microseconds)
+uint8 NUM_ACTUATOR_CONTROLS = 9
+uint8 NUM_ACTUATOR_CONTROL_GROUPS = 4
+uint8 INDEX_ROLL = 0
+uint8 INDEX_PITCH = 1
+uint8 INDEX_YAW = 2
+uint8 INDEX_THROTTLE = 3
+uint8 INDEX_FLAPS = 4
+uint8 INDEX_SPOILERS = 5
+uint8 INDEX_AIRBRAKES = 6
+uint8 INDEX_LANDING_GEAR = 7
+uint8 INDEX_GIMBAL_SHUTTER = 3
+uint8 INDEX_CAMERA_ZOOM = 4
+uint8 INDEX_COLLECTIVE_TILT = 8
+
+uint8 GROUP_INDEX_ATTITUDE = 0
+uint8 GROUP_INDEX_ATTITUDE_ALTERNATE = 1
+uint8 GROUP_INDEX_GIMBAL = 2
+
+uint64 timestamp_sample	    # the timestamp the data this control response is based on was sampled
+float32[9] control
+
+# TOPICS actuator_controls_0 actuator_controls_1 actuator_controls_2
+# TOPICS actuator_controls_virtual_fw actuator_controls_virtual_mc