using only px4_getopt() and never the unsafe getopt()

using only <px4_getopt.h> as include, cleanup related includes
added check that all the option are valid (myoptind >= argc). if there are invalid options on some script that might now lead not to run commands

src/drivers/test_ppm/test_ppm.cpp

@@ -52,7 +52,6 @@
 #include <stdio.h>
 #include <math.h>
 #include <unistd.h>
-#include <getopt.h>
 
 #include <perf/perf_counter.h>
 #include <systemlib/err.h>